Something Old, New, Borrowed, or Blue?

To my Artsy, Crafty, Gift-giving, and/or Pinterest-Inclined Friends...

I have started compiling a list of a few small items we would be so thankful to acquire before Baby Joey's arrival- only 3 months away (or sooner)!  Because of my recent scare that I had already lost him, I feel more pressure to get on the ball in this department.  I think it would be so incredibly special if people we know would be interested in making any of these for us, but I would also be willing to buy them... if you can help me find where!

1. Little Hats, and/or Miniature Baby Blankets- sounds like we'll need a few- for hospital, photos, (home-maybe?), and funeral.  I think the homemade crocheted hats are so much more beautiful than the hospital ones.  I especially think little Mary's hat is so perfect here.. http://www.prenatalpartnersforlife.org/Stories/AnencephalyStoriesIndex.htm. Anybody want to make me some, and/or matching miniature baby blankets?  That would be sooo sweet.  The hats would need to be very little (like preemie or doll-size) and if they have some thickness to the top, they seem to look really nice in pictures. The blankets can be teeny-tiny, like doll blankets also.

2. Clothing- So, we'll most likely need only a couple of outfits as well.  We're looking for the type of outfit that would look beautiful in pictures after birth, and/or funeral services, and I can't find anything special enough to purchase.  I think a fuzzy Carter's-type sleeper, with a Bible verse sewn in calligraphy would be very special. (white on blue; or blue on white)  Anybody want to find or sew something like this for us...?  I can give you our favorite Bible verses if you would be interested in doing this.  I think an outfit like the following, with a med-light blue hat, and tiny matching blanket would be so beautiful. (This picture is Dominic Gundrum, who has encephalocele. I wrote about him in my previous post.)  http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/dominicgundrum/photos/entry/num/8

3. Memory Box-  So, other folks suggested putting a few keepsakes (a few pictures, an outfit Joey wore, a blanket, stuffed animal, etc) in a memory box afterwards, that is pretty enough to put on display.  Some people get a small cedar chest, or a larger jewelry box, etc. Any suggestions?

4. Three Plaster Mold Kits- For taking a mold of baby's Joey's hands and feet, and an extra for messing up!  (I'm not sure, but I hear it can be bought at craft stores?)

5. Haberman Feeder-? Supposedly effective in helping babies with neural tube disorders and/or cleft palate nurse.  Don't know if we will be able to use it at all, but it might be worth trying.  Anybody have one we can borrow?    

6. Stethoscope/Heartbeat Monitor of some kind?  Silly question, maybe.. but does anyone have a stethoscope and/or heartbeat monitor lying around that we could borrow for a while?  We've heard it's so comforting to hear the baby's heartbeat during the continuing pregnancy.  

7. Big Sister Shirt/Outfit for Elisa- She's a peanut, but let's suppose she'll be in 18-month clothes by then.  If you have one or two we could borrow, that would be awesome.

8. Large Maternity Dress- So... I've also gotten advice that I should have a dress lined up for the funeral.  I'm a pretty pitiful shopper anyhow, and won't be in any state of mind to shop then.  Soon after giving birth, it'll still need to be a maternity dress.  Anybody have one that I could possibly borrow?

If you have any other suggestions about little essentials we'll need, just let me know. Thanks!
PS- I think we're in good shape with everything on this list now!  Thank you everyone for your generosity! =) 9/20/12